Much better, I've raised 3 boys that are dear to me. BUT!!!!! Grand kids are great. You can give advice and it's listened to. You can visit and not change diapers, wake up of 3:00 feedings. You can spoil them and feed them candy, make then hyper and leave. They confide in you like they will not with Mom and Dad. I have a 4 year old grand daughter that dotes on me. Now a grandson to light up my life. Life is grand.