Well,,,, it might depend on how much money the old geezer has?
Seriously, when you say family, I am assuming they are "close" to you in way or another, so I would go family all the way!
But ,,,,if it's old cousin Pete who you haven't exchanged Christmas cards with for years now,,, well the fishing starts looking pretty good again,,,,, unless, of course, cousin Pete has a lot of money and no will made up yet!!!